We had planned to go home and rest   before our evening ceremony at the chateau, but had already had so much wine that we decided against it. Instead, we ended up at the local cafe with 15 cousins sipping black coffee and smoking cigars. Later, my mom told me her eyes popped when she drove by and happened to see me in the middle of town, sitting in a lawn chair with my big white gown and smoking a cigar.  Thank goodness she wasn't around to see me when I needed to use the bar's Turkish toilet in all of my finery! Ha!